GIRL TALK SERIES: 5 HABITS TO GROW CONDIFENCE!!!

             If you're a boy exit please...come on... leave...I'm waiting...Byeee… Okay I think they're gone let's get into it.

            Hey friends, we are about to get into a JUICY girl talk. Think of me as your big sister that's probably younger than you. (lol)

1. TRY SOMETHING THAT YOU'RE SCARED OF, BUT WANT TO DO AT LEAST ONCE.

       

            Everybody has one thing that they what to do, but is scared of what other people will think about it. If you want to wear some super high platforms or whatever it is, DO IT! Honestly, once you do it and you get past that day or whenever you do it. You will see that NOBODY CARES! You're going to think "wow I did all of that overthinking for nothing."

            By doing this you will see that no one actually cares. Think about it this way, if you see someone in the street and they catch your attention, you'll think about it for that moment, but you'll get over it. It's the same way with other people, if you do something they won't care about it after a while. This will also help to teach you to not care.

2. WEAR WHAT YOU FEEL THE MOST BEAUTIFUL IN.

            

                You know the saying ''Look good Feel good?'' Well, baby girl, it's true. especially when it comes to your own personal taste. If you don't like the way you look in a dress or just don't like dresses at all don't wear them. It's not going to make you feel good. Anything from the inside shows on the outside.

            So, just wear what you genuinely like and the beauty will shine through.  No matter if others don't think it looks good on you, you have to feel that it look good on you. You'll be the most confident girl in the room and it will show. 

3. UNFOLLOW TRIGGERING PEOPLE.

            If every time you see a post from whatever ''Instagram model'' and you start to feel down and insecure then you need to UNFOLLOW THEM! You are not in the right mind space to be following people that make you feel like that. I'm in no way saying it's these people's fault, I'm saying that your mind isn't the right place for that.

            Work on yourself some and get to a place to when you see another pretty girl, you don't feel down about yourself. if this helps anything I saw this quote that said ''It doesn't make sense to compare your twenty-four hours to someone's 1-second photo from their highlight reel of their day.'' - Rowena Tsai. Let that sink in.

4.  FOCUS ON THE BEST PARTS OF YOURSELF.

            When you look into the mirror try not to think ''oh my nose is big.'' ''I look fat!'' I'm too skinny.'' Instead of pointing out the things you are insecure about, point out the things that you like, or have accomplished lately. say things like ''my skin looks clearer today'' '' I got x more number of things done today than I did yesterday.''

            Compare yourself to who you were yesterday. Even yesterday was better than today, don't focus on the things that made today salty. Even if it's small just try to say some things that you are grateful for. There is ALWAYS at least one thing to be grateful for. Be more optimistic I can promise you, that you will feel better.

5. (BONUS) AFFIRMATIONS

            

                If you are not interested in this type of stuff then that is okay. You don't have to read it, this is just a bonus for whoever is interested. Saying daily affirmation works with the universe to bring things that you want/need to you. NOW, don't think you can wish to look like Beyonce one time and it will happen because it doesn't work like that.

                Affirmations only work if you truly believe they will. There are definitely affirmations that can help you to grow confidence. I don't really understand how to explain how it works, but I learned from YouTube videos. If you are interested you can for sure look it up and find out more. 

    

                This the end of this week's article. I hope that you all truly enjoyed and take some of my advice. I will be turning this girl talk into a whole series so stay tuned for more. With that being said I WILL SEE YOU ALL IN THE NEXT ARTICLE!!! <3

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YOUTUBERS I LIKE...and you should too ||

         Recently, I started a YouTube channel myself. Let me tell you how much more I appreciate Youtubers now. It's definitely not easy, so this is kind of an appreciation post for a couple of YouTubers that I like.

1. Dezmachdo

 

     1.19 Million Subscribers 

        I mainly like her channel because she is my age and in the same grade as I am. I like seeing other YouTubers that have the same ''lifestyle '' as me.  When I see her balance school, soccer, making, and editing videos makes me feel better about trying to balance these things a well.

        Guys, I am so serious when I say, this girl is so freaking funny. She has me dying. I love how comfortable she is around the camera. I know that I am still pretty nervous in front of the camera, but when I watch her channel it helps me to remember 'people will like if I'm myself.' She is always herself and that's what I like most about her channel. 

2.Larray 

  7.38 Million Subscribers

            I like to think of Larray as a funny YouTuber. He does a lot of what is trending at moment on YouTube. Lately, he's been hanging out a lot with Charli D'Amelio and other TikTokers so that's what his content consists of. I think my first watching Larray was ''Calling random girls and telling them I  took their man.'' From then on I knew.

            He is the funniest, silliest, yet most serious YouTuber I watch. All the time I see him speaking for what's right and wrong. I like how he uses his platform to get others to do what is needed without sounding like a teacher. He's a free spirit and does what makes him happy and I just be like ''AS HE SHOULD!''

3. Sandy Diana Bang 

  

                                                261 Thousand Subscribers

            I see her as more of a fashion guru of a YouTuber, at first I use to watch her channel when I'm feeling more girly. Now I'm there every upload she has. Every time she uploads a new video she makes me want to up my fashion sense. Just look at her in the picture above, her outfit is so pretty. She has a lot of vlogs, girls talks, and other things on her channel.

            She's another YouTuber I like because they are so young. She's only 19 and she's doing so much with her life at a young age. Whenever I feel like I need to up my fashion, I go and watch some more of her videos, because trust me they always work. 

4. Taty Cokley 

 

    786 Thousand Subscribers 

            Taty Cokley is more or an advice kind of YouTuber. Mainly girl talks, but anyone can watch them and get some very useful advice from them. Most of the time when I watch her channel, it's on my self-care Sundays. On these days, the only things I will watch is something motivational. You better know I always start and end with her videos.

            Of course, her channel isn't only about giving advice, she also does other content. Things like clothing hauls, tags, storytimes, and more. Her channel is good for if you need some ''big sister'' advice, but you don't want to actually ask your sister, she is there you give you everything you need.

5. Jazzy le 

449 Thousand Subscribers 

        Jazzy Le is such a calm, warm-hearted, and aesthetically pleasing YouTuber. The content that she makes is not put into one category. She does everything on her channel, but with her own twist to it, which is one this I really like about here. She is also another one of the YouTuber I watch on Sundays. She has a girl talk series that is so good.

        In a lot of her girl talk videos, she talks about things that are ''tabou'' and is transparent about her insecurities. It just makes me very comfortable watching her channel and a free place of no one to judge me. I'm sure if you look through her comments you'll find me venting about something for sure.  

    

    

        As I always say, this is the end of today's blog. I hope you all enjoyed it as much as I enjoyed writing it. Again, this is kind of an appreciation post for YouTubers I watch because of how hard it is to actually do this. Remember I post 3 pieces of content a week. 2 YouTube Videos and  1 article. With that being said THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR READING AND I WILL SEE YOU ALL NEXT WEEK! <3

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ROOM DECOR TRENDS 2020 || IMMA HOP ON A FEW

                 I be begging my mom for these things and she be like..."no."  I'll act like I understand, but ''I'LL DO IT AGAIN."

1. LED LIGHTS

    I know, I know...basic, BUT I STILL WANT THEM. They're such a vibe. The way you can change the colors based on your moods is addicting. I don't know maybe I'm basic because every TikTok girl has these, but I don't care. 

    My mom always says, "people are going to look in your window and think we are running a carnival through your room." But mom listen...why not have my own personal  carnival in my room. ehh? Did you think about that one?

2. Picture Collage Wall

        The first time I saw these I was like ''nuh-uh honey." I thought that made people's rooms look so messy and cluttered. THEY STILL DO when you have too many pictures. I prefer the ones that have fewer pictures. Less pictures can actually make your room look more put together. I know the exact opposite of what I said at first. 

        Make sure that if you do this you have a COLOR SCHEME. I am so picky about this but I don't care. (LOL) A bunch of colors will just throw off your entire room, sis. Most people do pink, I think I'm going to do blue. Chile, please don't do every color known to mankind. (lol) Also, it should fit YOUR aesthetic, not what everyone else is doing because this is your room. Make it yours, because you won't have it forever. 

 

3.Projectors 

        To be honest, the only people I see with projectors are TikTok girls. Look, it be looking so cool when people be playing animal crossing on their projectors. The people in this picture watching FRIENDS look so nice for a friend's night.

        A projector isn't really something that I am wanting, but it is cute though. I don't see as a ''must-have'' but it does look nice to have. Imagine   a movie night with family and friends. Perfect!

4. Vines 

        These are so freaking cuteee! Vines automatically give your room this spiritual and earthy vibes to it that is just perfect. Mine are put up at the head of my bed along with my fairy lights. Let me tell you, when I'm in class and my teacher says "turn your cameras on." I DON'T CARE WHAT I LOOK LIKE...as long as you see how cute my room is.  That's my weird flex but I like it.

        When your room has pastel colors, really subtle things, open space, and your windows are always open...GET YOU SOME VINES SIS. Give the trees outside a run for their money. Maybe clip some polaroid or printed pictures on them to make them so much cuter than they already are. Thank me later.

5. Fairy Light (across the ceiling)

            

          I like fairy lights, but PLEASE NO, when you put them all across the ceiling it's so ugly. I have some and mine just go around the perimeter of my room. I don't know I just feel like when you have your fairy lights like that you automatically make your room look cluttered and ugly. BUT HEY...if you like it, I love it...no biggie.

          Those can get caught in your fan and start a fire, right? Maybe I'm just being extra but I don't want to take any chances, love. Even if it's not dangerous it's ugly anyway. So, TikTok girls, can we stop this trend? yes? no? maybe? Who do you think you are? The patio of a restaurant? (lol) okay bye.

            Sadly, this is the ending of another article. I actually don't like to call these articles, I want to make a cute name for these, just for us. Anyway, I hope you enjoy what I have for you today. Remember I post 3 pieces of content of every Thursday. 2 YouTube video and 1 article. Thank you so much for reading and I will talk to you all next week. <3

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